I always get anxious to open up, but I rarely regret it because of messages like this. One of my goals, whenever I do something I feel is meaningful, is I hope to reach at least one person in a positive way. So thank you for being that person.

I’m so glad it helped you. Your determination is going to take you closer to the person you want to be, and I can’t wait to see what that person is like!

nonbinarypastels:

There’s nothing weird or bad or problematic about this. There’s a lot of solidarity between the bi and ace community in general because bisexuals and asexuals tend to have really similar experiences, both in terms of intra-community relations and how our orientations are treated by society. There’s also nothing abnormal about still feeling close to certain labels you used to use or ones that you still feel kinda describe your experiences.

THANK YOU!!

I’m so happy I could do that for you!! Right on!

First of all: thanks!

Second of all: I never thought I’d be making a compilation set of the back of my head…but I’d do anything for you guys I guess LOL

I’m a bigger guy so I’m assuming you’re looking for stuff on the bigger side? 

Because I honestly have a pair I got in the plus size section of Foreever 21 that’s been surprisingly durable, so try bargain hunting there sometime! I also suggest Asos (they have a plus size section for both men and women’s) and an online shop called Boohoo that me and Bee buy from often enough. These are all stores where I’ve gotten my drop-crotch items from

Another search terms that may help is “jogger”!

AW thanks very much for the appreciation! I hope I can help you out!

Your question actually brings up something very important for style:
It’s all about how you accessorize and proportion the separate items with each other, and sometimes your bottoms and shoes are the most important part of your outfit.

So you like constructed men’s shirts but wanna keep a feminine silhouette? No problem honestly! For business casual, you can of course go for skirts, either tucked or untucked for different vibes. But that might be obvious, so let’s focus on pants and slacks with your ensemble.

In popular “tomboy fem” style, a lot of people will usually opt for a slightly oversized, boyfriend-jeans look. I know you don’t like loose blouses, but I’m talking more the type of fit. Relaxed men’s shirts, capri-length slacks, rolled up sleeves (sometimes under women’s blazers or cardigans), and a general “deconstructed menswear” vibe can go a long way. This devil-may-care attitude will make it look less rigid (which is associated with traditionalist masc business style) and more “effortless”

Of course, if you’re anything like me and don’t do well with oversized looks, especially in the pants, there are other options too! There’s the obvious “full suit but WITH HEELS” twist, but this look can be expensive and is very dependent on your endurance.
(You can always try shoe alternatives, but because of the traditional nature of the ensemble, the impact isn’t quite the same without the high heels)

(Also the one in green is Esther Quek, and I highly suggest looking her up for general style inspo!)

And my last piece of advice is, simply, high-waisted pants, ideally tapered or cropped. Not necessarily because it accentuates an hourglass figure (cause that’s not always true depending on your body type), but moreso because it’s a rare, rare creature in modern male business style. This look works really well with just a shirt and no jacket on top

LMFAO TBH I love when people tell me about wild ass dreams where I pop up. (Ironically I’ve only ever watched Mewtwo Strikes Back out of the pokemon movies)

But a while back, me and Bee were getting a lot of anons telling us we saved them from nightmares and it made me so happy I even drew it, so seriously, tell me about your bizarre dreams featuring me. I adore stories like these ://>